The 23-yea-rold hit headlines last month after the six minute clip was posted online, but in an honest interview with Top Of The Pops magazine, Tulisa insisted:“I could sit all day long saying I wish I’d never done this or met that person but at the end of the day, with the position I’m in, I can’t exactly complain.
“Everything’s taken me to the place that I’m in and made me the person I am. It just makes you stronger, doesn’t it?”
Tulisa was quick to react to the video, posting a clip herself hitting out at her ex Justin Edwards, who she accuses of leaking the tape.
The N-Dubz star said in the clip: “I am devastated, heartbroken. When you share an intimate moment with someone that you love and trust, you never imagine for one minute that footage may at any point be shared with the rest of the UK.”
Despite the emotional outburst, which has now been watched by millions, Tulisa says she did the right thing.
She explained: “Don’t just ignore it — directly deal with it. Everyone always feels it’s best to ignore things and leave it, but I don’t believe that.”
She added: “People are always going to judge you and that’s fine — I couldn’t care less — but let them judge you on the truth.
“If no one else is telling the truth, you’re the only one who’s going to.
“If people choose to believe you or don’t believe you, then whatever. That’s their problem.
“Let the rest go over your head. The haters are ants to me!”