The N-Dubz singer may be the star of a one biggest UK TV shows and have her own solo album, but it's had a tough knock on effect on her social life.
"Everything goes great in my career but my personal life has just been s***," Tulisa tells Look magazine this week. “Fame and money – I don’t give a c*** about all that stuff.
“If you could put me in a little house in the countryside with a picket fence, a husband, dogs and a family where I can feel love and happiness, I would trade that in a second.”
But Tulisa reckons her huge career now means she has no hope of ever finding a man, claiming they are "scared" of approaching her.
Tulisa revealed: “There’s nowhere for me to meet anyone.
“Men are scared of me and won’t approach me.
“Even if I like someone and I’m fluttering my eyelashes, they still run a mile. So I wouldn’t have dates if I didn’t approach people."
She added: "That’s why I go for really tough lads because only they can handle it.”